Am I ready for a horse of my own?
ByI am 13 and I have been volunteering at my local stable for a year and I have been going to my friend’s ranch since I was 8. At the stable, I have turned horses in and out, cleaned their water buckets, cleaned the feed rooms, exercised horses, and groomed horses. At my friend’s ranch, I have cleaned stalls, feed and watered her horses, cleaned their water buckets, taken the horses in and out, taken her miniature horses on a trail walk, talked to her Ferrier and vet, ridden her horses, and started training one of her rescue horses who has made a great deal of progress.
I know that owning a horse costs money and is a huge responsibility. My mom has a second job at an after school care place and she said if I help her out after school for two hours I can get half of her pay. By the end of the month, I will have enough money to pay my friend for letting me keep my horse there. I will also have my allowance ($80) and my lunch money that I don’t use ($100). The only reason I wouldn’t keep my horse at my local stable is because I don’t really agree with the way the barn is run… (They take all the fun out of horses). I am looking to adopt a rescue horse (http://www.equineadoption.com/order.htm) and later on show my horse in 4h. My friend’s barn is full at the moment because she only has three stalls. So, my horse could use the lean-to once we build a sliding door on the end of it (pictures below).
I know I will need a lot of equipment like grooming, tack, helmet, boots, first aid kit, food and water buckets, deworming medication, and money for floating&vaccinations and incase of colic or any other medical problems. So far I have a my grooming kit, a saddle and saddle pad, shampoo, a lead rope and lunge line, all of the Parelli training tools apart from the bridle system, halter and hackamore, bareback pad, boots, helmet, and the Parelli DVDs. I need to but yet a winter blanket, fly spray, fly mask, first aid kit, a halter, cross-ties, hackamore, bridle, and deworming medication. Once I get my horse, I am going to get insurance on my horse so if something happens, a percent of the cost will be cut. I am also going to buy a round pen, seeing how my friend has always wanted one and I could use it too.
I will be able to go out to my friend’s ranch every Friday and Saturday and sometimes during the week once summer arrives. On the days I am there I will be cleaning the stalls and training/ riding. I have not taken any riding lessons except for the ones from my friend but I am not that into riding. I rather just have a pasture pal than a show horse. I am planning on going to college though. For college, I am looking at going to the University of Wisconsin which has a stable there for me to keep my horse at. Do you think I am ready for a horse of my own?
~pictures~
Kathy’s Barn
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Kathy’s Barn2
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The Lean-to
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Black Jack (the rescue horse that I began to train) and Rocket (another rescue horse that Kathy donated to a family)
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Black Jack and I (from two years ago)

Thanks ahead of time:)
Sorry if it was really long…
I have already co-owned a horse with someone and then they had to sell the horse and at the time I was 9 and less experienced so I could not but that horse fully. I was heartbroken and I really don’t want to have to go through that again… and neither do my parents:)
I understand the basic costs of horses and by the time I will be getting mine, I will have $3,000 saved up. My parents said I can get a hrose only if I pay for it myself but I would like to know if I am ready to get one before I jump in way over my head:)
Well you sound really responible and you are right, owning a horse is a lot of money and needs a lot of care. So if you think your ready for the challenge then sit down and talk about how you can come up with the money and where you can keep it. Have fun!!!!




13 Comments
May 25th, 2010 at 11:22 am
I recommend sharing a horse, You can see it everday a week if you want to and only need to pay a little bit a month! Its what im doing and its going great so far!
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May 25th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
you dont need a fly mask,and only a bridle OR a hackamore.not mechanacal ones.the natural hackamores. i dont really understand your wording………….hmm…….. anyway,blankets cost around 120 dollars for a good winter blanket,and about 500+ for a corral.i dont think you should get a horse yet. mabie you could……….but keep in mind that rescue horses often have had bad lives,so they can be unfriendly and untrusting. and based on your saddle,not all saddles fit all horses.so your saddle might not fit.
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May 25th, 2010 at 12:23 pm
Well you sound really responible and you are right, owning a horse is a lot of money and needs a lot of care. So if you think your ready for the challenge then sit down and talk about how you can come up with the money and where you can keep it. Have fun!!!!
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May 25th, 2010 at 12:28 pm
I think you’re ready for a horse. I really like your mature attitude in considering the costs and potential problems. I hope you get your wish. I can tell that you are aware that being ready isn’t everything and that sometimes you don’t get what you want for reasons that you can’t control but it seems that you have thought of everything I would have and then some. I have a 12 year old grandson who works at a stable and they are now using him to teach riding to beginners because of his experience and I was raised with horses. By the way, as a writer, I really like the phrase, "pasture pal." I might use that sometime if you don’t mind. Good Luck and enjoy.
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May 25th, 2010 at 1:17 pm
Yes, you sound like you are defintley ready for a horse. You have your finacial sition all worked out to! Go for it.
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May 25th, 2010 at 1:59 pm
Well, you are more thorough than most of the other people that want horses, and some of them are much older than you! The only thing I am concerned about is that you don’t seem to realize how much all that stuff is going to cost and that feed, vet, farrier, dentist, bedding, supplements/vaccines are going to be an ongoing thing. You will need well over $1000 to pay for the start up things. You seem to have lots of experience with horses and its great that you are adopting a horse. The shelter you showed looks fine. For some less costly supplies, go to horse.com or horseloverz.com. Those are really great websites and they will reduce the cost for lots of the things you still need. So, yeah, you should save up a couple thousand dollars before you get your horse and good luck!
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May 25th, 2010 at 2:29 pm
I think you sound very well prepared for having a horse. I got my first pony when I was 14 and I was probably less prepared than you, and it was fine.
I’m guessing that your friend is very experienced – this is great so that you’ll have someone to turn to if you need them. You’re making realistic decisions like pasture pal rather than show horse. Also your mom is supportive.
I do agree though, with what the other poster has said, about rescue horses having traumatic pasts and issues. By all means look into getting one, but it is important that your first horse should be straightforward – you will have so much more fun that way. You should also be asking around your local area to find out if anyone has a nice all-rounder for sale. Bring your friend and an instructor with you to try out any possible horses. Don’t fall for the first one you see – try several before deciding.
Good luck – I have a feeling this is going to be great for you!
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May 25th, 2010 at 2:37 pm
i wouldn’t want to OWN a horse maybe lease it for a year and see how u did and then maybe u know!
If you want to own one GO TO THE BARN MORE! than just 2 days and if ur going to college u might not have time to take care of the horse! but idk its up to u! if u wont take lessons u still have to ride the horse trail rides and stuff because the horse needs exercise instead of u walking around with it
but as i read ur description u sound very kind and LOVE horse! u could be ready to lease a horse wait to really OWN one
hope this helps
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May 25th, 2010 at 2:42 pm
You have a wise head on young shoulders. You have also put in the work and the time so it will not come as a shock to you when you realise all there is to keeping a horse. The only thing you lack is the experience that comes with age, but, i think that you have the common sense to ask someone who has the experience should you come up against something you haven’t encountered before. And you’re getting older all the time! I’m 50 something and I ‘m still learning having been around horses since I was about 10. I think you are ready for your horse, just remember, if you’re not sure, ask someone. Good luck.
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May 25th, 2010 at 3:15 pm
It sounds like you are ready. Can you really train? Which horse do you think of ADOPTING? I am going to maybe adopt a mustang! It sounds like fun. What age do you look for in these horses?
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May 25th, 2010 at 3:49 pm
What a great story! I think you are ready…
If only you could adopt blackjack, that would be so cool
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May 25th, 2010 at 4:07 pm
i think you are ready for one- go for it- if you think you can and nothing is in your way of getting one- and you understand & are up for everything that you will have to do and stuff then i think you can do it;-) good luck and best of wishes;-)
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May 25th, 2010 at 4:12 pm
$3,000 will not begin to cover costs. You need to pay for board, vet, shoes, dentistry, blankets, tack, riding lessons, and all of the stuff you listed above. $3,000 isn’t even close. Also, owning a horse is a FULL TIME commitment. Fridays and Saturdays are not nearly enough. And horse ownership is NOT for someone who just wants a pasture pal. You do not understand the kind of commitment horse ownership costs. You have to be totally dedicated, not for people who aren’t that into riding. Do not get get a horse just so you can brag to your friends that you have one. You are not ready to own a horse.
P.S. you said that you wanted to show the horse, which is an added cost, but later said that you didn’t want a show horse. make up your mind.
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